Well, it seems like yesterday that I was awaiting in great anticipation the arrival of our first born, a strapping son, born to very proud but very naive parents!!! The first of three! But, suddenly here we are frantically preparing for his 18th Birthday Party, whilst he is away at University oblivious to all the goings on! Even the dogs have noticed the frantic activity of furniture rearranging, party lights, tressle tables, table cloths, flowers, champagne, balloons etc etc.
HOW DID THAT HAPPEN!
What keeps running through my mind as we countdown to the big PARTY this weekend is the old adage ‘fail to prepare, prepare to fail’. So preparing is what we are doing, maybe badly but we are giving it a shot!!
Being organised well in advance is the key. We have chosen to go with caterers which takes a huge chunk of the workload, but then there is still the big issue of drink, alcoholic and soft, not to mention the cake. In the end went for a photo cake as the cake lady was fully booked due to Christmas orders……….. actually good fun, but don’t forget the candles!!
Choosing a theme was a good idea, or so we hope. Our son is farming mad so we went with the theme of Country Shoot which hopefully means we will see an array of hilarious outfits. It is also an excuse to crack open the Sloe Gin as guests trickle over the threshold and to stimulate conversation between the young and old gathered . Other entertainment includes the magician, and the projector show running throughout the night of the said prodigal, from birth to 18, guaranteed to provide a huge dollop of tears and hilarity from family and guests alike!
Flowers were the next big thing and the theme has really helped there, pigeon decoys being the centrepiece for each table, adorned beautifully with berries and flowers – should be a conversation starter!
Then of course, the menu is carefully planned, game and beef casseroles with earthy root veg and Dauphinoise potatoes, favourite puddings of profiteroles, lemon mousse and crumble, finished off with cheese, chocolates, coffee and the speeches! The perfect meal for a winters night. Don’t forget the vegetarian and the coeliac!
I hope all this care and effort pays off, for celebrating 18 years of your childs life is a true privilege. What better way than to share it with Grandparents, Godparents, family and friends, and despite the chaos, I know how lucky we are. Pray the party goes off with a BANG and proves a robust rehearsal for the 21st ahead!